Relationships

How to Work a Room

This book is a national bestseller. How to Work a Room: Your Essential Guide to Savvy Socializing by Susan RoAne has a lot of great nuggets to help you work a room. I heard about this book a few times, but didn’t have any real interest in it until my friend, Rafael Fermoselle, had mentioned that he was reading the book. While this book isn’t the best book about business networking, it...

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Value

I feel like there are people in the community who I’ve met that are value takers. They can change, but it’s a process. It’s not my responsibility to get them to recognize it, or get them to change. They have to want it. A person that gives value is a great person to be around. They are not giving value in order to get value; that’s why they’re called value givers....

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Good-Bye to Shy

Good-bye to Shy is a book about shyness and how to overcome your shyness. It was written by Leil Lowndes and is the author of the bestselling book, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You. Even though I don’t really consider myself shy anymore, this book made me realize that people are shy to some degree. Although this book is written for the extremely shy person, it can be used for all...

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Embracing Death

I was taking a power-nap and was lucid dreaming. It was a very interesting dream. Instead of me talking about the dream, I will pose a scenario for you. Envision (feel it) yourself as an observer of your own dead self. Look at the past and look at the events that has passed in your life. Are you dissatisfied with your inaction towards what you really want to do in your life? You probably are. I...

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Work on yourself

How do you find the right person? 1. Be clear about what you want and what you don’t want. Remove the scarcity mentality; there are enough good people for you to make a good choice, and not settle, but if you don’t know what you want, you won’t know if it just walked by. 2. Be worthy of that person. Make a list of what kind of person you would have to be to attract the kind of...

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